Biblical Counseling is a different approach than traditional Christian Counseling to solving a counselee's issues. It does not focus on individual counselee's problems or wounds. Rather, the approach to resolving the problem comes from the shifting of the counselee's perspective.
Secular psychologists and counselors focus on identifying the problem and how to deal with it while interacting with others. It helps a counselee manage the symptoms of a particular problem from a behavioral science perspective. It helps the counselee function as a member of society using various methods, including drugs, in its therapy sessions.
Biblical Counseling views the past emotional pains and scars under God's sovereignty. Biblical Counseling views the counselee's past emotional pains and scars in conjunction with the Kingdom of God and how it affects God's glory.
Through the past emotional pains and scars, the counselee has the opportunity to restore a relationship with God through God-centered and Scripture-centered approach. It deals with the internal change of the counselee, not external changes.
The goal of Biblical Counseling is defined in Colossians1:28 that the counselee to become perfect in Christ through restoring and rebuilding the image of Christ in the counselee's life.
The job of a Biblical Counselor is to facilitate Christ'smeeting through the manifestation of Scripture in the counselee current situation. The Counselor's job is to allow the counselee to discover the roots of sins in the counselee's life and allow Holy Spirit to convince the counselee to repent from the counselee's sins and return to God.
There are seven principles in Biblical Counseling that we must explore before going deeper into the methods and operations of BiblicalCounseling.
I. Human beings are created in the image of God
The foundation of Biblical Counseling begins with the creation account of Adam and Eve. Instead of focusing on the counselee's problems, the counselee can view the counselee's problems from the creation perspective. The first man, Adam, was created in the image of God. The image of God is full of God's glory, and Adam was like God in many of his attributes but was not God. Adam had nothing lacking and was full as long as he was in communion with God.
God made Eve out of Adam's rib, and God sent Eve as the helper to Adam. Although Adam was created in God's image, Adam was not God; he needed a helper to do his work. Adam was perfect, but God saw that it was not good that Adam was alone, so God gave Eve to Adam.
God wanted to reign over all the creation through Adam. God made Adam ruler over all creation, and Eve was there to help Adam. Adam was truly the glorified image of God on earth. However, when Adam fell, the human deficit came as its result.
II. Human beings fell because of sin
Biblical Counseling basis all problems that all human faces rooted from the fall of Adam. In the garden of Eden, Satan, the crafty counselor, came and counseled Eve. Satan convinced Eve that disobeying God by eating the fruit of knowledge will make Eve and Adam like God.
The Bible does not explain what happened when Eve ate the fruit of knowledge. However, when Adam ate the fruit of knowledge, both of their eyes opened up and saw that they were naked, and they hid their bodies with fig leaves.
Biblical Counseling directly charges the counselee that the issue is not the past emotional pains and scars, but the problem's root is from sin. Until the sin problem is resolved, the counselee will continue to suffer from sin's effects in the counselee's life.
As previously discussed, Inner Healing does not address the issue of sin in the counselee's life as the counselee's main problem. Instead, inner healing makes the counselee think that it is not the counselee's fault, but others were the cause of the counselee's problem. Thus, removing the responsibilities of the counselee in resolving the counselee's sin problem.
III. The human problem is a heart problem
The secular psychology or Christian counseling sessions that base their foundation on secular psychology focus on changing behavior or emotional fluctuations or making sense of the past wounds to resolve the counselee's issues. Sometimes, Christian counselors do not know how to resolve the issue at hand because they do not believe that the fallen human heart is the root of the problem. Instead, these secular psychologists and Christian counselors believe that the human heart is good and passive; it was the external factors and influences that caused the evils in the world.
However, the Bible states that the human heart is evil and is not passive.
Proverbs 23:7 states, "For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee."
The Biblical Counseling perspective on the human heart is fundamentally different from all other counseling perspectives. Since the fall, all of the human heart actively defies against God and actively seeks after sin. No one teaches their young children to lie, but all children know how to lie. It is a common phenomenon that everyone experiences, and no matter how much we try to solve it, it is impossible with human will.
All secular psychology-based counseling goals, even Christian Counseling, change the counselee's behaviors or environment to make sense of it so the counselee can manage the environment and themselves. However, Biblical Counseling's goal is not to change the counselee's behaviors or environment. Instead, biblical Counseling aims to change the person's heart, as it believes the heart's transformation is the root solution to the problems.
Biblical Counseling asks this fundamental question, "what controls this person's heart?" When that is identified, the biblical Counselor can assist the counselee in digging into their own heart with Scripture and finding their true intentions that may be hiding underneath.
Thus, even the perspective of identifying the problem differs from all secular psychology-based counseling models.
IV. The major counseling tool is Scripture
Biblical Counseling's goal is to equip the counselee as a person of God. Thus, the main tool it uses is found within Scripture. All other tools and methods that other secular psychologists use are ancillary. The Biblical Counselor can assist the counselee in opening up and allow Scripture to become the mirror to the counselee's heart condition.
Inner healing and other secular psychological counselors sometimes use hypnosis to identify and treat the counselees. However, biblical counselors do not use hypnosis at all, as it is prohibited in Scripture, and all the tools and methodologies are found within Scripture.
We will discuss further in the application part of Biblical Counseling chapters ahead.
V. The best example of Biblical Counseling is JesusChrist
Jesus Christ was the best Biblical Counselor. He was able to communicate with everyone and counseled them with Scripture. Jesus was an attentive listener who observed what others were telling him but read all non-linguistic expressions that others were showing.
Every word out of Jesus' mouth was valuable and useful for Counseling and guiding the listeners. Jesus listened to the cries of following him. There are numerous examples of this in the Bible.
The Lazarus' death account showed one of the main examples of Jesus' attentive listening. When Jesus arrived at Bethany, it has been four days since Lazarus died. Yet, when Jesus saw the wailings of Jews and the two sisters, Jesus was compassionate about their sorrows, and he cried.
Not only was Jesus the best Counselor, but he also sympathized with all the souls of the earth, for he lived on the earth under the sorrows of mankind.
Jesus not only preached the gospel, but he preached repentance and forgave sins. When the paralyzed man descended to Jesus from the rooftop, Jesus forgave their sins for the faith they had. Jesus knew that the solution to the paralyzed man's problem was physical healing and spiritual healing of the heart through the forgiveness of sins.
Jesus preached forgiveness of sins through repentance, as he knew the root of the problem in everyone's heart was the sin. Ultimately, Jesus was died on the cross to resolve the problem of the sin of humanity. He was the ultimate Counselor and propitiator between God and man.
VI. The human being is tormented in the world
Whether the counselee's problem originated from self, others, or environment, Biblical Counseling observation is done under one viewpoint; all are under God's sovereignty.
When the counselee comes to belief and acceptance ofGod's sovereignty, then the counselee's heart begins to heal. Unfortunately, secular psychologists will not acknowledge God's sovereignty because its foundation is that mankind has a good passive heart, and God does not exist. Unfortunately, some Christian counselors blindly accept some of the methods and beliefs that the secular psychologists incorporate into their counseling session, unintentionally leading the counselee astray from the truth.
VII. True change comes from the work of the Holy Spirit
Romans 8:26 states, "Likewise the Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered." the Holy Spirit is the ultimate Counselor that all mankind needs. The Counselor is a facilitator for the counselee to meet the Holy Spirit and encourages the counselee to live in the Holy Spirit.
The change of the heart occurs when the counselee lives not according to the gratification of sinful nature but under the Holy Spirit'sinfluence. The Biblical Counselor helps the counselee put off the old self and put on a new self; the new image of Christ is imprinted on the counselee.
The counselee's daily submission onto the Holy Spirit'scounsel must be effectuated in the counselee's life. Therefore, the Biblical counselor facilitates Scripture into the counseling session. Most Christian counselors think this means telling the counselee to live by Scripture. It is partly true but partly false. The Biblical Counselor approaches this matter in perspective of not condemning for not living by Scripture. Rather, a delicate balance between allowing the counselee to open their heart and allowing Scripture to administer its principles onto the heart of the counselee. Because BiblicalCounseling depends upon the Holy Spirit's work, the Biblical counselors must incorporate prayers and Scripture in the counseling session. We will discuss this further in the application section.